At Self Ceremony, we value sexual exploration and self-pleasure as a way to get to know our bodies more. Cultivating our sexual energy can help us find ways to love ourselves more deeply. It’s also a way to release tension and anxiety we carry around in our bodies throughout the day.
Crystal pleasure wands are thought to be a way of achieving sacred self pleasure, manifestation and healing from within. They can guide us in navigating the path towards a deeper connection with our sensual selves. While I had heard of crystal sex toys, I was personally skeptical about them. Putting a crystal inside my vagina just felt...weird. Until I decided to try it.
The small phallic shaped crystal (also called a yoni wand) arrived at my doorstep one weekday in October. I slowly took it out of its packaging and inspected it with my eyes and my fingers. It was amethyst just like my birthstone, so I instantly felt connected to it. I put it back in its small fabric pouch and shoved it into my underwear drawer for safe keeping. I was curious to say the least.
A few days later I decided to give the purple object a whirl. One night before bed, I removed it from its pouch and began touching myself. Then, I inserted the crystal into my vagina, gently thrusting it inside of me. The small size of the crystal was easy to move and play with. The rigidity of the object felt nice inside of me and when I rubbed it against my genitals. After several minutes of playing with myself, I climaxed and felt a wave of calm come over me. I was elated and sexually satisfied.
I’m not a die hard sex toy person (I’ve tried several different ones but prefer to keep it au naturale), yet there was something magical and different about the yoni wand. It felt sacred and special. I highly recommend trying it — especially in your birthstone, if you can.
Pleasure wands can be used alone or with a partner, for self-pleasure or tantric massages. All in all, they help give us the power to navigate our paths towards healing. I’m looking forward to incorporating my wand into my self-pleasure routine.
Self Ceremony - Yoni / Pleasure Wand Collection